Dear Ayesha, Munawar Is Treating You Perfectly, You Deserve Worse

Neeraj Kumar January 6, 2024January 6, 2024

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In the episode of 5th January, we saw #AyeshaKhan questioning #MunawarFaruqui – How can his behavior change in one day? Firstly, Munawar’s behavior has not changed in a day and it is very common in everyone’s life that people suddenly change their behavior towards a friend or family member after one event. In this article, we have tried to explain the whole scenario.

Below we are giving two real-life examples where someone broke all communications with his one friend and one close relative in a day:

1. There were two good friends Nikhil and Vikash (Names Changed). They had been friends since class 5th, they did schooling together and went to engineering college together. Vikash’s father had died when he was in class 7th. After 10th, Vikash decided to study in his village at a government school due to financial issues but Nikhil asked his parents to give him money and arrange in the same +2 school as his. Nikhil’s parents helped and both got admission to the same school. For the entire 2 years of classes 11 and 12, Nikhil’s mother sent lunch for Vikash. After +2 they both appeared in the Engineering entrance exam and Nikhil got a much better All India Rank than Vikash, Nikhil got a computer science in an engineering college, and Vikash also wanted Computer science in the same college but due to his lower rank, he could only manage to get Electrical Engineer. The university had a rule that if you get more than 8.5 CGPS in 1st and 2nd semester then you can have your stream switched. While Nikhil was a fun guy with lots of friends going around him, Vikash focused on his studies to get an 8.5+ CGPA and switch his stream to Computer Science. When the results of 1st semester were out, Nikhil got 8.8 CGPS while Vikash could get only 7.9 CGPA. Vikash was disappointed and Nikhil tried his best to cheer him up. All this while, after a lesser rank in the Engineering exam and lesser marks in semester exams Vikash had started feeling jealous of Nikhil, but Nikhil was unaware of all this. In the final year, when placements started, Nikhil got placed in the 1st company which came but Vikash couldn’t, on the very next day there was another company scheduled, before the aptitude test of the company, both Nikhil and Vikash went to have tea, while Nikhil went to the washroom, Vikash stole Nikhil’s mark sheets from his folders so that even if Nikhil clears aptitude test, he couldn’t clear the interview as interviewers go through the folders of candidates which has CV and all the certificates. Nikhil didn’t realize that his mark sheets had been stolen, in the aptitude test Nikhil, showed all his answers to Vikash so that he would get placement in at least one company, at the end of the written exam the company gave an information sheet to fill which had details like marks in your 10th, 12th and engineering till last semester etc, to enter the marks when Nikhil open his folder to check mark sheet then he realized that his mark sheets are missing, Nikhil informed the invigilators and they said it’s okay, original mark sheets will be required at the time of joining and in that company due to Nikhil’s help even Vikash got selected and Nikhil got his second placement. In the evening, Nikhil found his torn mark sheets near his PG. Luckily, when Vikash was throwing the marksheet the girlfriend of Nikhil saw him as she was coming from that area. While confronted Vikash accepted it, all the batchmates wanted to beat Vikash but Nikhil asked them to back off and leave him. This was an incident of one day and after that, Nikhil never talked to Vikash ever in his life. This placement day’s true story is from 2010, it’s been 13-14 years and they Nikhil has not talked to Vikash, even when Vikash made several attempts. So, the moral of the story is, a person can completely cut-off from another person in just one day.

2. Let me tell you another real-life story, in brief, there was a very bright but poor student who got 3rd rank in his entire state in the state board exams, he and his cousin brother were very close, although his cousin was much older than him and he was doing a good job earning a good salary. After the board exams, the student got selected for the best college in the state and for admission fees and traveling to the capital city where the college was the student asked his cousin for Rs.2000 but he made an excuse to him, later the student got to know from his son that the cousin had got salary on the same day. After this one incident, the student cut all ties with that cousin and his family.

Now, why did I narrate the above two stories? Just to make you understand that people do change in a day, for a girl it can be when a boy hits her first time, or any particular incident in anyone’s life can trigger a permanent brokerage of any relationship.

Okay, so what is the relation of all these stories with #MunawarFaruqui and Ayesha Khan?

Like in the above two cases, there was a defining moment in Munawar Faruqui’s journey in #BB17 with respect to Ayesha Khan and that was the courtroom task, it was then followed by the conversation with Abhishek and Mannara and finally the exposure of Ayesha Khan by Salman Khan on Weekend Ka Vaar.

Munawar Faruqui always knew about the lyings of Ayesha that he double-dated her without informing about Nazila, because Ayesha herself admitted that she had posted one status related to Munawar and Nazila called her and said “Stay away from my boyfriend” when the girl herself called her then there was no chance that she was not aware. Munawar didn’t lie about breakup, he had told her that he can’t have a relationship with her, even she accepted that 10 days before 5th October they has stopped talking and she repeatedly said that there was no committed relationship with Munawar but still she was defaming Munawar Faruqui on national television.

Munawar kept taking all the shit thrown by Ayesha because of gaslighting by Ayesha and a guilt trip which Ayesha continued to send him on by her constant taunting. In the morning of the courtroom task, while discussing with Abhishek, Munawar said “I know many things but I don’t want to speak, I want to wait for WKV”, this clearly shows that he had started realising that Ayesha is taking advantage of his guilt feeling.

During the courtroom task, #VickyJain didn’t ask Ayesha to speak against Munawar but Ayesha still went on for nearly an hour speaking against Munawar, this was that one defining moment when Munawar realized so many things. From day 1 Ayesha was speaking badly about Munawar Faruqui, she talked bad about Munawar in front of each and every housemate, but still, she chose to repeat it with Munawar on the courtroom task day while she was giving him hints that she likes him. When at night Munawar was talking to Mannara, it was clear that now he realized that Ayesha had just used him to enter the #BB17 and get cheap fame by defaming the name of Munawar.

On the next day, Salman Khan exposed the entire fame game of Ayesha Khan and it gave further clarity to Munawar. When Ayesha did the self-hurt drama then Munawar was again going into the guilt trip but Salman Khan went inside and clarified that this all drama is because she came with the thought that she would keep using Munawar for her game by sending him in the guilt trip and get fame and limelight and when it did not happen then she is unable to take it. This further clarified to everyone and mainly Munawar that the purpose of Ayesha Khan giving interviews and then coming on the show was not to seek an apology but only to get into #BB17 using the fame of Munawar.

After all this, #MunawarFaruqui should have treated Ayesha Khan in the Razzak mode but it is his decency and humble nature that he is still treating her with respect. She is not backing off in throwing tantrums, her fake care on Paratha, then sleeping in the bathroom area, etc are all her attempts to get the attention and sympathy of Munawar.

Thankfully, Her fainting has suddenly stopped, and so has Munawar Faruqui’s extra attention towards her.

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